Dirty Talk Tips From Escorts

13 February 2025

Looking to turn girls on without even lifting a finger? Dirty talk is your best friend. Whether you are whispering sweet filth into someone’s ear or moaning out a command, the right words can turn a good night into an absolutely mind-blowing one. But let’s be honest. Dirty talk can feel a little awkward if you are not used to it. No one wants to sound like they are reading bad erotica out loud.

The Things Our Escorts Love To Hear During Sex

To help you get it just right, we asked some of our London escorts to share what they love to hear in bed. From sexy compliments to downright filthy demands, here is what gets them going and what will work wonders on your partner too.

Praise is a Turn-On

A little flattery never hurt anyone, especially in bed. If you want your partner to feel irresistible, say it out loud with feeling.

One of our escorts, Emily, said "I melt when a guy tells me how sexy I look when I am riding him, or how much he loves my body. It is not just the words. It is knowing he actually means it."

Science backs this up. A study in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships found that verbal affirmations build intimacy and attraction. So do not hold back. If they look hot, say so.

Bossy is Sexy

Confidence is sexy, and there is nothing hotter than someone who knows exactly what they want. Escorts love it when a client takes charge and gives clear, dominant instructions.

Another one of our girls Lexi is all about a man who knows exactly what he wants. She mentioned to us "When a guy growls, get on your knees, or turn around, I want to see that ass, my whole body reacts. It is direct, it is commanding, and it is so damn sexy."

According to a study from the Archives of Sexual Behavior, partners who openly express their desires report much higher sexual satisfaction. So if you have something in mind, do not be shy. Say it.

The Right Kind of Dirty

Some people like it soft and sensual. Others like it explicit and raw. Either way, do not be afraid to let the filth flow.

One of our top escorts Blase loves a bit of filth. She said "I love it when a guy whispers in my ear about how wet I am, or what he is going to do to me next. It makes me want him even more."

A survey by Lovehoney found that 73 percent of people find dirty talk a turn-on, and 59 percent say it makes them feel more confident in bed. If you are feeling it, go for it. Just make sure your partner is into it too.

Don't Be Cringe

Dirty talk should not sound forced. If it feels awkward, your partner will notice. Just go with what feels natural in the moment.

One of our brunette girls Fernanda swears by keeping things simple and natural. She said "Honestly, the biggest turn-off is when a guy sounds like he is trying too hard. Just say what you feel. If it is god, you feel so good, or I cannot stop thinking about this, I am all in."

The key is to relax, have fun, and not overthink it. Sexy confidence beats scripted lines every time.

Want to Practice? Our Escorts Are More Than Happy to Help

If you are feeling a bit rusty in the dirty talk department, there is no better way to sharpen your skills than with someone who knows exactly how to play the game. Our escorts are experts at setting the mood and keeping the conversation spicy. Whether you want to practice whispering sweet nothings or go full steam ahead with filthy fantasies, they are ready and waiting.

So go on and give it a try. Who knows. You might just discover a whole new side of yourself.