Escorts Offer Their Top Sex Tips

No one is inherently "good" at sex—it’s more about experience and learning what works to make each encounter more enjoyable. And what better way to fast-track that learning curve than by taking pointers from London escorts, whose entire profession is centred around mastering the art of intimacy?

1. Slow and Steady Wins the Race

One of the most overlooked aspects of great sex is taking your time. Emily, one of our top escorts, advises: "Don’t rush into things. Let the anticipation grow by lingering on my touches and teasing glances. Build the excitement slowly, and you’ll notice a big difference." 

Studies show that slow, deliberate pacing not only enhances arousal but also fosters deeper emotional connections. According to research covered in Vice, spending time on foreplay—an often-neglected stage of intimacy—can significantly enhance the quality of sex. Aim for at least 10 minutes of foreplay, incorporating everything from kissing to caressing to verbal compliments.

2. Talk It Out

Effective communication can transform your sex life. A report by Cosmopolitan highlights that 70% of couples who openly discuss their desires experience greater satisfaction. Lexi, another highly experienced escort on our team, encourages: "Talk to me. Ask things like, ‘Do you like this?’ or ‘What feels good for you?’ Listening and adjusting based on my feedback shows you care and makes a world of difference."

One of our other girls Blase, adds: "Pay attention to my reactions. If I like something, stick with it. Don’t switch things up just for variety if it’s working well."

Remember, communication isn’t just verbal. Nonverbal cues, such as her breathing or body language, can also guide your actions.

3. Foreplay Deserves More Love

Foreplay is often described as the appetizer to the main course, but it’s so much more than that. Fernanda, one of our most requested escorts, insists: "Foreplay is part of the experience. Take your time to explore my body—the neck, ears, and inner thighs are all sensitive spots that shouldn’t be overlooked." 

Research cited in the Mirror suggests that couples who dedicate significant time to foreplay report higher levels of sexual satisfaction. Start with light touches and kisses, gradually increasing intensity. Writing the alphabet with your tongue during oral stimulation, as noted in Cosmopolitan, is a playful yet effective technique for stimulating sensitive areas.

4. Mix It Up Without Overdoing It

While variety is important, comfort and mutual enjoyment should come first. According to Tatler, the world’s top escorts recommend modifying positions for maximum stimulation rather than attempting overly complex maneuvers. Lexi suggests: "You don’t need to get too adventurous. Sometimes, adjusting the angle or using pillows for support can make a position feel entirely new and much more pleasurable for me." 

One of our top blonde girls Adela advises: "Eye contact is powerful. Positions like missionary or cowgirl allow for that connection, while spooning is perfect for a slower, more intimate vibe."

5. Put Her Pleasure First

Data from Cosmopolitan reveals that nearly 75% of women require clitoral stimulation to orgasm. Nona recommends: "Don’t skip the clit. Take your time and use a mix of touches, kissing, and oral techniques. Focus on my pleasure, and I’ll appreciate the effort."

Incorporate variety by alternating between gentle touches and more direct stimulation. Use tips to guide your actions: explore her body, watch her reactions, and adjust accordingly.

6. Show Some Love After

Aftercare is an often-overlooked aspect of intimacy, but it can significantly enhance your partner’s overall experience. We spoke to one of our girls Chloe who suggested: "Don’t just roll over and fall asleep. Spend time cuddling or talking with me afterward. It shows that you care about me beyond just the physical act."

This aligns with research highlighted by Vice, which shows that couples who engage in aftercare report greater emotional satisfaction and are more likely to strengthen their bond.

7. Build That Emotional Connection

While physical techniques matter, emotional intimacy often takes sex to the next level. One of our girls Avery had this to say: "Build trust and understanding with me. When I feel safe and connected, I’ll be more open to exploring new things."

According to a study published in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, couples who nurture emotional intimacy report a 35% higher satisfaction rate in their sexual relationships.

8. Practice Makes Perfect

Finally, remember that sexual skill is like any other skill—it improves with practice. Helen reminds: "No one gets it perfect the first time. Keep learning what works for you both and don’t be afraid to try new things."

Research supports this—couples who prioritize regular sexual activity often experience greater confidence and enjoyment in their intimate lives.

Interested in getting some practice in? Browse our selection of escorts today to find yourself the perfect companion to text these tips on!