The Sex Myths Escorts Want You to Stop Believing

Over the years, myths about sex have been passed around like a game of Chinese whispers, and despite all the information available today, some people are still getting it wrong. Thankfully, the London escorts we represent know a thing or two about sex and are here to set the record straight.

Myth #1: Bigger is Always Better

Size is one of the most debated topics in the bedroom, but here’s the truth bigger doesn’t always mean better. Research published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found that while women may prefer a slightly larger penis for one off encounters, girth and technique matter far more for long-term satisfaction.

One of our escorts, Kalinda, summed it up perfectly: “A big dick is useless if the guy doesn’t know what to do with it. I’ve had clients with average sizes who could make my toes curl, and then guys with huge ones who were all over the place!”

So, rather than stressing about size, focus on skills, connection, and reading your partner’s responses.

Myth #2: Women Don’t Watch Porn

There’s a common misconception that porn is a “guy thing,” but that couldn’t be further from the truth. A 2023 report by Pornhub Insights revealed that 37% of its users are female and that number is steadily rising. Women are consuming adult content, and they’re just as curious and adventurous as men.

As Josephine put it: “I love porn, and so do most of my friends. We just watch different things POV, sensual stuff, sometimes even lesbian scenes. It’s not just men who enjoy it!”

Moral of the story? Don’t assume women aren’t watching or that they don’t have their own turn-ons.

Myth #3: Sex Should Last for Hours

Blame Hollywood for this one. Movies and TV shows make it seem like sex has to go on for hours, complete with slow motion sweat-drenched moments and no bathroom breaks. The reality? Most couples are done in between 5 to 15 minutes and that’s totally normal.

According to a study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, the average duration of penetrative sex is 5.4 minutes. So, if you’re worried about not lasting long enough, you’re probably doing just fine.

As Nadia cheekily put it: “Some of the best sex I’ve had has been quickies. If you know how to work the right spots, you don’t need an hour!”

Myth #4: Escorts Always Fake It

Some people assume that escorts fake everything from their moans to their enjoyment. While it’s true that professionals prioritize client satisfaction, that doesn’t mean they’re always putting on a show. Many escorts genuinely enjoy their encounters when there’s chemistry, respect, and good technique involved.

Kylie shared her take: “Look, I don’t fake just for the sake of it. If a guy is doing something great, why wouldn’t I enjoy it? Sometimes, clients surprise me with how good they are!”

So, don’t assume every escort is acting some of them are genuinely having a great time.

Myth #5: Only ‘Bad’ Girls Book Escorts

Escorts see all kinds of clients, including plenty of women and couples. Studies show that 20-30% of escort clients are female, often booking for bisexual experiences or to spice up their sex lives with their partners.

As Kalista put it: “I’ve had wives book me to join them and their husbands, and single women who want to explore. Sex work isn’t just for men it’s for everyone.”

Whether you’re a man, woman, or couple, hiring an escort is about fulfilling desires, not some outdated stereotype.

Myth #6: You Can Tell If Someone’s Had a Lot of Sex

This one has been around forever whether it’s the idea that vaginas get “loose” with too much sex or that guys can somehow tell if a woman is “experienced.” It’s all nonsense. The vaginal muscles are elastic, meaning they stretch and return to their original shape. Meanwhile, a person’s sexual experience has nothing to do with how they look or behave.

As Haifa put it: “I’ve had virgins who were amazing in bed, and I’ve met guys with body counts in the triple digits who couldn’t find the clit. Experience doesn’t always mean skill.”

The key is communication, not assumptions.

Myth #7: Good Sex is All About Spontaneity

Spontaneous sex can be exciting, but planned sex can be just as hot if not hotter. Research published in Sexual and Relationship Therapy found that couples who scheduled sex had higher levels of satisfaction and intimacy compared to those who relied solely on spontaneity.

One of our escorts, Jayne, had a great perspective: “People think planned sex is boring, but anticipation is sexy. Knowing I have a hot date lined up makes the whole day exciting.”

So, don’t underestimate the power of scheduling. A little build-up can do wonders.

The Bottom Line

Sex myths have a way of sticking around, but the truth is often much simpler and way more interesting. Many misconceptions stem from outdated ideas, media exaggerations, or a simple lack of experience. If you want our advice, don't make any assumptions until you've interacted with enough sexual partners, which you can start doing today by booking one of our gorgeous escorts who are more than happy to show you what real pleasure is all about!