Things You Should Never Say to an Escort

Booking an escort is like ordering a fine wine—it’s all about savouring the experience, not ruining it with clumsy words. Knowing what to say (and what to keep to yourself) can make all the difference. Let’s break down some things you should definitely avoid saying, with real talk from girls from our London escort selection.

1. "Can I get a discount?"

Asking for a discount isn’t just awkward—it’s plain disrespectful. Escorts set their rates for a reason, and negotiating isn’t part of the deal.

“When someone asks for a discount, it’s like they don’t respect what I do,” says one of our girls Emily. “If you can’t afford my rates, just don’t book me.”

Show respect by understanding that an escort’s rates reflect their time, effort, and professionalism.

2. "What’s the most money you’ve made?"

This question is nosy and unnecessary. Bringing up other clients or money details is a big no.

“It’s just tacky. I’m focused on you, so why bring up anyone else?” explains Lexi. “Let’s keep the conversation fun, not weird.”

3. "You’re too pretty to be doing this."

While this might sound like a compliment, it’s actually a bit insulting. Escorts choose this job for their own reasons, and there’s no need to question it.

“I get it’s meant to be nice, but it feels patronizing,” says Blase. “I’m proud of what I do, and I love it—end of story.”

4. "Can you do it for free?"

Nope. Escorts are professionals, not charity workers. Asking for a freebie isn’t just rude—it’s a guaranteed way to get turned down.

5. "Is that your real name?"

Asking an escort for personal details, like their real name, crosses a line. Most use stage names to protect their privacy, and prying into their personal life is disrespectful.

“There’s a reason I have a work name,” says Fernanda. “It’s about keeping boundaries. Respect that, and we’ll get along great.”

6. "What’s the craziest thing you’ve done?"

This one might seem harmless, but it’s a bad idea to push for stories about other clients or wild experiences. Focus on your own time together instead.

7. "You don’t look like your pictures."

Calling someone out like this can be hurtful and awkward. If you genuinely feel misled, bring it up politely and respectfully.

8. "Can we hang out off the clock?"

Escorts offer a professional service, and expecting them to meet for free disregards the boundaries of their job.

“It’s frustrating when people assume I’d want to hang out for free,” says Adela. “This is my career, and I take it seriously.”

Things You Should Say to an Escort

Now that we’ve covered the don’ts, let’s talk about what you should say. The right words can set the tone for an amazing experience and show your companion that you respect and value them.

1. "You look amazing."

Compliments go a long way. Whether it’s about their outfit, smile, or vibe, showing genuine appreciation is always a winner.

“Hearing that I look great sets the mood right away,” says Nona. “It’s a simple thing, but it makes a big difference.”

2. "What do you enjoy most about your work?"

This is a thoughtful way to engage and shows you’re interested in them as a person. It also helps create a relaxed and enjoyable atmosphere.

“I love it when clients ask me things like this,” says Chloe. “It feels less transactional and more like a connection.”

3. "Thank you for your time."

A little gratitude goes a long way. Acknowledging their effort and professionalism shows you respect their work.

“When someone thanks me, it really makes me feel appreciated,” says Avery. “It’s such a simple gesture, but it means a lot.”

4. "Is there anything I should know to make this better for you?"

This question shows you care about their comfort and the quality of your shared experience.

“It’s rare but so nice when clients ask this,” says Helen. “It shows they’re considerate, and that’s such a turn-on.”